How do you look at the girl you love, and tell yourself it’s time to walk away?

It is never easy to look at the girl you love, with all of the past memoirs and tell yourself to walk away. It never is. It is a painful decision which is decided after so much painful thinking and it has many reasons but the pain that comes after it is never easy.

The answer of why do we have to do this comes in various theories, some regarding your own self and some regarding her.

Why this painful decision has to be taken?  

Well when one gets so tired of hurting and cannot endure any pain. There’s only so, so much hurt a man can take. Yes she makes his life beautiful but she also gives him the eternal pain. His smile hides his pain in front of her but that doesn’t mean he is not hurting or dying from the inside. Sometimes the person we love takes out part of us bit by bit and we let them and in the end we are left with nothing ‘cause they have taken everything. That’s what forces us to take this painful decision ‘cause at some point you have to stand up for yourself and say, it’s enough. But if you don’t than surely your love is strong, but is it worth it?

Sometimes you have to take this decision for her sake, because maybe you are hurting her and if you get away she might stop hurting. Girls are delicate and sensitive creatures and a man can never fully understand them, they compromise for men. Even if they are hurting they do not show it so if a man gets to know that she is hurting her then he should try not to and if you can’t do this then this painful decision has to be taken.

How do you do it? 

This is also not easy. You dive into denial, you deny the past memories and you deny the happy moments. But denial; it’s not just a river, it’s a freakin’ ocean. So it is not easy to deny something so true and real but it is not impossible. It is very hard to deny her but it is for you, to not get hurt from time to time anymore. Yes, after you leave her it feels like the worst pain but it gets better and someday you wake up and realize that you are not hurting anymore. You think about her and all that comes into your mind is love but no pain and it feels awesome but also incomplete, because you are addicted to pain but it also passes.